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Failure
or Success.
Which Do You Choose? By Billy Arcement, M.Ed.
No
one sets out in life to fail.
The reality is that many do.
Why do some prosper while others struggle just to exist?
There is no simple answer to that question but here are a
few thoughts that might shed some light into this very complex
issue. (1) The future is in your imagination.
Humans are blessed with the ability to think into the
future. We can use
our imagination to see possibilities.
Those who succeed see themselves in that role and,
through the power of their imagination, bring their visions into
reality. What
vision do you carry in your mind?
Is it one of hope or hopelessness?
Begin to use this unique gift in a positive way.
Build a vision of what you want to be, have or do.
It is the starting point of all successful activities. (2) To win, you must expect to win. Once
we imagine our future, we must wrap that vision with a belief
system that encourages us to fulfill the vision. Those who struggle with life have lost their ability to
believe things will ever be different.
The truth is that every day offers another opportunity to
change our circumstance and start our journey towards personal
greatness. We must see and believe.
As we move through time, opportunities are abound.
All we have to do is recognize them as brass rings and
reach out to grab them. Like
many of the children riding in my day who feared reaching out to
capture the brass ring, low achievers are content to ride rather
than risk reaching for the brass ring. Capturing opportunity demands risk. Are you a risk taker? (4) Like what you do or do something else.
Low achievers usually don’t like to work or don’t
like the work they are doing.
It’s a no-brainer to understand that those who don’t
want to work will never prosper.
For those who work, it is critically important that their
work be a joyful experience. Life is too short to work at a miserable job.
Look for ways to make your work interesting or improve
your skills to improve your job opportunities.
Match your skills to your job requirements.
The closer the match, the more enjoyable the experience. (5) Your success depends on other people.
No man is an island.
We must interact with and receive the support of others. Build a network of friends in your industry, community, and
the world. The more
people you know, the more opportunity you have to find a
resource in times of need.
Hang around people who are successful and possess a sound
value system. Get
to know people of achievement.
Listen to their words, watch their actions and apply what
works for you.
(7) You become like your environment. Not
satisfied where you are? Look
around. The power
of your environment will either be your albatross or your
springboard to success. Exam
your friendships. Better
to have no friends at all than one of the wrong kind of friend.
People born to poverty generally stay that way because
they fail to change their environment or friends.
What role has your environment and choice of friends
played in your success or failure to achieve?
Open your eyes and take a long, serious look. (8) Everyone can succeed. We
are all born with enough abilities to experience success.
Our task is to discover and develop those abilities.
Nothing comes easily.
Success demands hard work.
Are you willing to work that hard?
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This article is copyright 2000 Billy Arcement and The Results Group and cannot be published without permission from the author. Billy
Arcement is a highly respected and recognized expert on personal
and organizational success techniques.
His messages are timely, inspirational, humorous, and
filled with refreshing warmth and sincerity audiences have come
to appreciate. Always the teacher, Billy has dedicated his life
to helping others reach their potential.
He knows how to instill a sense of action and purpose.
He is the author of Searching for Success as well as numerous nationally published articles. To get his free electronic newsletter, News from the Swamp , call 888-376-7374, email your request to barcement@eatel.net or visit our web site at www.searchingforsuccess.com.
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