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A Four-Letter Word By Billy Arcement, M.Ed.
Most
people, when one says “a four-letter word,” automatically
think one is referring to a vulgar term.
Today, I’d like to talk about a four-letter word.
It’s not vulgar. Rather,
it is a positive driver of the human spirit-a builder of dreams.
The word— HOPE. Hope can be a motivator that
keeps our dreams alive and our attitudes positive.
As youngsters, we hope that Santa will bring us the toys
we want. Newly wed
couples hope for a good, productive and happy marriage.
Upon completion of college, graduates hope to land a
good-paying job with a bright future.
When children are born, parents hope that they will be
healthy. As our
children grow to adulthood, parents hope their offspring will be
successful in their careers and that life will be generous to
them. Adults hope to live long enough to retire and enjoy the last
years of their life. Communities
hope that prosperity will rein and that their city will grow and
become an economic Mecca for businesses. Yes, hope is a driver of the human spirit -a builder of dreams. But there is a dark side to hope. It’s called HOPELESSNESS. And today, in a world that is experiencing unparalleled potential, too many are in a state of hopelessness. Too many children cannot celebrate Christmas with the toys of their dreams. More importantly, they don’t even know why we celebrate Christmas. No one has taught them any religious beliefs. Rising rates of divorce have almost made a mockery of marriage. Couples, unable to compromise in their relationship, move from hope to hopelessness. They separate and, in many cases, leave children with a sense of hopelessness as well.
Parents, never take the time to learn parenting skills.
They take a normal, healthy baby and, through their lack
of skills and a willingness to become skilled, guide their
children toward hopelessness. They fail to spend time encouraging their offspring to build
dreams of hope. They
abuse, neglect and mistreat them from birth.
They do not try to understand nor encourage their
children to become strong, self-sufficient and hopeful
individuals. And,
the worst results of such parental misguidance are children
shooting children. Adults, who neglect to
prepare for their eventual retirement, fail to make adequate
plans. They wake up
one day and find themselves trapped in a future filled with
meager income and no other training to turn to for income
supplement. Social
security is not enough. They
have no savings and soon, hopelessness permeates the remainder
of their life. Community leaders, caught up in their own glorification and perpetuation in office, never ignite the fires of hope within their town. Day by day, the town dies and descends into hopelessness. Citizens lose faith in their leaders and take on this same sense of hopelessness. But, the beauty of life is
that we can always turn hopelessness into hope.
Each day, we have the choice to become a better, stronger
and more productive individual.
We always have the choice to begin improving our
education in order to open brighter career options.
We have the choice to work hard at our relationships and
grow a strong marriage and family atmosphere.
Each day, we can choose to become better parents and be
encouragers of our children.
Every day, we can put a few cents aside to increase our
financial stability to live better in our later years.
At every election, voters can make correct choices and
place visionary leaders in office.
They can demand that officials work for the good of the
community. And,
when they fail to bring hope into the community, vote them out
of office. What choice will you make?
Hope or hopelessness?
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This article is copyright 2000 Billy Arcement and The Results Group and cannot be published without permission from the author. Billy
Arcement is a highly respected and recognized expert on personal
and organizational success techniques.
His messages are timely, inspirational, humorous, and
filled with refreshing warmth and sincerity audiences have come
to appreciate. Always the teacher, Billy has dedicated his life
to helping others reach their potential.
He knows how to instill a sense of action and purpose.
He is the author of Searching for Success as well as numerous nationally published articles. To get his free electronic newsletter, News from the Swamp , call 888-376-7374, email your request to barcement@eatel.net or visit our web site at www.searchingforsuccess.com.
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