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Billy Arcement, MEd.
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A Four-Letter Word

By Billy Arcement, M.Ed. 

            Most people, when one says “a four-letter word,” automatically think one is referring to a vulgar term.  Today, I’d like to talk about a four-letter word.  It’s not vulgar.  Rather, it is a positive driver of the human spirit-a builder of dreams.  The word— HOPE.

            Hope can be a motivator that keeps our dreams alive and our attitudes positive.  As youngsters, we hope that Santa will bring us the toys we want.  Newly wed couples hope for a good, productive and happy marriage.  Upon completion of college, graduates hope to land a good-paying job with a bright future.  When children are born, parents hope that they will be healthy.  As our children grow to adulthood, parents hope their offspring will be successful in their careers and that life will be generous to them.  Adults hope to live long enough to retire and enjoy the last years of their life.  Communities hope that prosperity will rein and that their city will grow and become an economic Mecca for businesses.

            Yes, hope is a driver of the human spirit-a builder of dreams.  But there is a dark side to hope.  It’s called HOPELESSNESS.  And today, in a world that is experiencing unparalleled potential, too many are in a state of hopelessness.  Too many children cannot celebrate Christmas with the toys of their dreams.  More importantly, they don’t even know why we celebrate Christmas.  No one has taught them any religious beliefs.  Rising rates of divorce have almost made a mockery of marriage.  Couples, unable to compromise in their relationship, move from hope to hopelessness.  They separate and, in many cases, leave children with a sense of hopelessness as well. 

            With the greatest opportunity in the world for obtaining a free education, thousands of students drop out of school and drift from one job to another.  Daily, their sense of hopelessness grows and, in some cases, they turn to crime and drugs as their hope source for a better life. 

            Parents, never take the time to learn parenting skills.  They take a normal, healthy baby and, through their lack of skills and a willingness to become skilled, guide their children toward hopelessness.  They fail to spend time encouraging their offspring to build dreams of hope.  They abuse, neglect and mistreat them from birth.  They do not try to understand nor encourage their children to become strong, self-sufficient and hopeful individuals.  And, the worst results of such parental misguidance are children shooting children.

            Adults, who neglect to prepare for their eventual retirement, fail to make adequate plans.  They wake up one day and find themselves trapped in a future filled with meager income and no other training to turn to for income supplement.  Social security is not enough.  They have no savings and soon, hopelessness permeates the remainder of their life.

            Community leaders, caught up in their own glorification and perpetuation in office, never ignite the fires of hope within their town.  Day by day, the town dies and descends into hopelessness.  Citizens lose faith in their leaders and take on this same sense of hopelessness.

            But, the beauty of life is that we can always turn hopelessness into hope.  Each day, we have the choice to become a better, stronger and more productive individual.  We always have the choice to begin improving our education in order to open brighter career options.  We have the choice to work hard at our relationships and grow a strong marriage and family atmosphere.  Each day, we can choose to become better parents and be encouragers of our children.  Every day, we can put a few cents aside to increase our financial stability to live better in our later years.  At every election, voters can make correct choices and place visionary leaders in office.  They can demand that officials work for the good of the community.  And, when they fail to bring hope into the community, vote them out of office.

            What choice will you make?  Hope or hopelessness?

 


This article is copyright 2000 Billy Arcement and The Results Group and cannot be published without permission from the author.

Billy Arcement is a highly respected and recognized expert on personal and organizational success techniques.  His messages are timely, inspirational, humorous, and filled with refreshing warmth and sincerity audiences have come to appreciate.    Always the teacher, Billy has dedicated his life to helping others reach their potential.  He knows how to instill a sense of action and purpose.  

He is the author of Searching for Success as well as numerous nationally published articles.  To get his free electronic newsletter, News from the Swamp, call 888-376-7374, email your request to barcement@eatel.net or visit our web site at www.searchingforsuccess.com.

 


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