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An Exercise Worth Doing By Billy Arcement, M.Ed.
As
a year ends, we find ourselves asking, “Where has the year
gone?” We began
the year in earnest determined to make this year better than
previous years. No
repeat of past mistakes. This
year will be different. But
alas, we just didn’t make all our visions a reality. Before you beat on yourself
too much, I’d like you to complete a little exercise. Immediately after reading this article, grab a pad and pen
and begin to list every positive event you’ve experienced in
your lifetime. We’ll
call this your “Victory List.”
Don’t take this request lightly.
Give it deep thought.
Even “bad” experiences have lessons.
Look for the lessons learned and how you turned tragedies
into triumphs. Write
without hesitation or evaluation.
Record all your thoughts.
What about the months ahead?
Are you willing to work towards greater accomplishments?
Do you feel motivated to do better?
If your answered yes to the last two questions, continue
reading. (If you
answered no, start reading this article again!) There are two more lists to
complete. The first
is a “Wish List” of all the things you’d like to be, have
or do in the years ahead. For
this list, there are not limitations.
Education, money, age, gender, race, etc. are not
factors. Just dream
and write as if nothing can stop you from completing every wish
you’ve recorded. Don’t
stop until you’ve listed at least 100 items.
Now comes the challenge! Place
a check mark next to your top ten choices.
Don’t worry about the order at this time.
Focus on those items that kindle the fires of desire.
Review the items checked and rank them from one to ten.
By completing this assignment, you
have now identified the number one priority in your life—something
vast majorities of people never do.
But, your work is not done.
There is one final list to construct. Nothing in the world is done
without action so we’ll name the final list, “Action
Items.” This list contains activities you must complete in order to
accomplish the number one desire identified on your Wish List.
Brainstorm for ideas.
Ignore none. Write all possibilities that come to mind.
Don’t let self-inflected limitations get in your way. Just as you did with your
Wish List, prioritize your action items.
What needs to be done first?
What is the logical next step?
Do I need to add a step that I didn’t consider earlier?
Many questions will arise.
Give it your best effort and the answers will come to
you.
Begin to make your life more meaningful by doing the
things you want to do. Remove
procrastination from your life.
Stop dreaming and do!
You will never have a strong desire without the ability
to accomplish that desire.
You’ve identified that desire.
Don’t you deserve to have it?
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This article is copyright 2000 Billy Arcement and The Results Group and cannot be published without permission from the author. Billy
Arcement is a highly respected and recognized expert on personal
and organizational success techniques.
His messages are timely, inspirational, humorous, and
filled with refreshing warmth and sincerity audiences have come
to appreciate. Always the teacher, Billy has dedicated his life
to helping others reach their potential.
He knows how to instill a sense of action and purpose.
He is the author of Searching for Success as well as numerous nationally published articles. To get his free electronic newsletter, News from the Swamp , call 888-376-7374, email your request to barcement@eatel.net or visit our web site at www.searchingforsuccess.com.
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