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Billy Arcement, MEd.
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Turning Lemons Into Lemonade

By Billy Arcement, M.Ed.

            Everyone can imagine the taste of a mouthful of lemon juice.  It puckers the mouth and brings a frown to our face.  Not a pleasant experience—one that we probably wouldn’t want to experience.

            Sometimes life treats us like lemon juice.  Events sour our taste and kill our internal motivation to achieve.  We give up.  And, like the drink of lemon juice, we never try the experience again.

            Reacting to life this way is the thinking and action of a loser.  Winners find a way to take a bitter experience and turn it into a sweet one.  Winners take the lemon juice life offers, add water and sugar to improve the taste, and make a refreshing glass of lemonade.

            What about you?  How is your thinking?  How would one describe your actions?  Are you taking the lemons life puts in your path and creating lemonade?  If you continuously pucker your mouth in disappointment over your achievements, pucker no more.  There is a better way.  There is a formula to make lemonade. 

            One must look at every event of life as a lesson to improve.  We must learn from these lessons and neutralize their bitterness with new, creative activities.  We must constantly strive to turn bitterness into sweetness.  It is this action that develops a desire for success.  Once we learn to act this way, we never have to revert back to allowing bitterness to dominate our thinking.

            Our commitment to success is tied to opportunities—those fleeting moments for improving our position in life.  We must open our eyes to the opportunities around us and be willing to take immediate action.  Sometimes opportunity only knocks once.  Sometimes, it hits us over the head with a baseball bat and we still don’t react.  Be alive and alert.  There is always enough opportunity to make our life the success we want it to be.  But, we must prepare.

            The greatest gift we possess is our mind.  It is more powerful then the fastest and smartest computer invented.  It is this wonderful masterpiece that fuels our imagination.  All inventions began as an idea in someone’s imagination.  Use this free gift to propel yourself over obstacles.  Use this gift to free your life of bitterness and pain.  Use this gift to drive you when events are their darkest.  You have all the imagination you need to be as successful as you wish to be.

            Finally, simply spend time thinking.  With our mind, we can think about strategies to use to help us on our journey to success.  But, thinking is hard work.  Most avoid it.  We are mentally lazy and many times that translates into physical laziness.  We do not act.  We lack desire; we miss opportunities; we don’t trust our imagination and we simply don’t think.  Thus, our life does not change.

            Follow the formula for making your lemonade.  Use the first letter of the four points made to form these two words—DO IT!  This is the recipe for success and your water and sugar for your lemon juice.

            Drink up my friends.  Life has much lemonade to offer.  Your task is to identify where the sugar and water are kept.  How much lemonade you make really comes down to how thirsty you are!

 


This article is copyright 2000 Billy Arcement and The Results Group and cannot be published without permission from the author.

Billy Arcement is a highly respected and recognized expert on personal and organizational success techniques.  His messages are timely, inspirational, humorous, and filled with refreshing warmth and sincerity audiences have come to appreciate.    Always the teacher, Billy has dedicated his life to helping others reach their potential.  He knows how to instill a sense of action and purpose.  

He is the author of Searching for Success as well as numerous nationally published articles.  To get his free electronic newsletter, News from the Swamp, call 888-376-7374, email your request to barcement@eatel.net or visit our web site at www.searchingforsuccess.com.

 


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